My Current Obsession: Mary Oliver

quote - mary oliver,  photo/design - me.

The Last Thing You Are Clinging To

When the brilliant ethicist John Kavanaugh went to work for three months at "the house of the dying" in Calcutta, he was seeking a clear answer as to how best to spend the rest of his life. On the first morning there he met Mother Teresa. She asked, "And what can I do for you?" Kavanaugh asked her to pray for him.

"What do you want me to pray for?" she asked. He voiced the request that he had borne thousands of miles from the United States. 

"Pray that I have clarity." 

She said firmly, "No, I will not do that." When he asked her why, she said, "Clarity is the last thing you are clinging to and must let go of." When Kavanaugh commented that she always seemed to have the clarity he longed for, she laughed and said, "I have never had clarity; what I have always had is trust. So I will pray that you trust God."

— Brennan Manning, "Ruthless Trust", pg. 5 

A Little Bit of Mr. Lewis

I heard part of this quote at church yesterday. 

And I haven't stopped thinking about it.

So I'm sharing here. So I can always find it and remind myself of it.

This place where I collect, remember, write and remind.

So this, today:

“There is no safe investment. To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket- safe, dark, motionless, airless — it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable...... We shall draw nearer to God, not by trying to avoid the sufferings inherent in all loves, but by accepting them and offering them to Him; throwing away all defensive armour. If our hearts need to be broken, and if He chooses this as a way in which they should break, so be it. What I know about love and believe about love and giving ones heart began in this.” — C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves